You’re approval is not needed! We often attempt to shape and mold ourselves to fit into other’s specific ideals; denying our true selves. We have the here and now to allow ourselves to be “ourselves”, shirking other’s opinions. It matters not what others think of us, as long as we remain true to ourselves. This is NOT clearing someone to be a jerk; it could be argued that those who would look down on others are filled with fear and insecurity. Those would would injure others are often writhe with anger and such fear along with a lack of confidence. I am not perfect, but it has come to pass that, as I have gained a sense of self-confidence and security, I no longer feel the need to belittle or argue with opposite parties. It can be said that individuals who insult and argue are missing a sense of self-esteem and feel the need to take their lack thereof out on opposing parties. However, is not condemning others for their anger still sitting judgment? Judge not.
Judge not!
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It is often that people fall into the trap of living up to other’s expectations, concealing the real self behind a facade of falsehood. True value lies in living out by projecting one’s own uniqueness and in the process realising one’s own potential and attaining fulfilment. Millions of such value additions make a continually enhancing world. Thanks for your insights on the subject.
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It is, indeed, vital to live an authentic existence.
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You seem to be very wise, stay that way. Take care now.
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Doing my best, which is all I can do!❤️
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For a moment I thought I had the wrong blog. This one is different from your Khushboo Arora site. Take care now.
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Hey Lorac! Arlyn is a guest blogger on this site. The past few posts have come from her, that’s why you felt the difference.
I’m glad you could identify the distinction, hope you’re doing well with all the shut down.
Lots of love your way! 🙂
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